My aunt left a will for me and my children, both minors, 15/13 yr old. If their funds are held under a trust, who will be their trustee? Is it their mother or anyone that is appointed by the executor? If funds are held until minors are 18 years old, can the parent use the funds before they turn 18? Can my aunt or friends be the trustee if the parents of minor are still alive?When funds are left to a minor in a will, the will itself is the guide to how the trust is going to be set up and administered. The trustee of all trusts in a will is the executor and trustee of the estate, unless the will specifically says something different. For example, some people who are leaving large trusts behind will name a trust company to manage the trust to ensure that it's done properly and honestly. This can happen even when the trust company is not an executor.
In your question, you ask whether the trustee is someone appointed by the executor. You'll note that the trustee is not appointed by the executor, it IS the executor, unless as I said, the will specifies someone else. In some circumstances, it could be the Public Trustee for the province.
It's interesting that you ask whether someone else can be the trustee if the minor's parents are still alive. This has nothing at all to do with the parents. It's all about a gift coming from an estate and that gift isn't given to the parent. It's going to a child, by way of a trustee. And yes, that trustee can be anyone who is named in the will. In your case, it can't be the aunt because you said it's her will, so presumably the trust isn't created until she has passed away. It could, however, be friends or siblings. The parents do not have the right to be a trustee just because the beneficiary is their child. It isn't their money so they have no right to it. In fact, plenty of trusts are set up with specific instructions that the child's parents never, under any circumstances, be made the trustee.
The will should also state the age at which the minor is supposed to inherit the money. While the child can't inherit while he or she is under the age of majority, the will can specify a later age. Don't assume the minor will inherit on his or her 18th birthday; the will might say age 21 or even older. The age set out in the will is the age the child will inherit. I've seen people set up trusts for individuals who won't inherit until they are 65!
Whether or not some of the money can be used before the child turns 18 also depends on the will. If the will simply says the child inherits at age 18, then that's what happens. No advances would be allowed. It would take a court order to change that, and such orders are not always granted. In the will that sets up the trust, look for a specific clause that allows the trustee to use the funds, and for what purposes. This type of clause should also specifically say whether the capital of the trust can be used, or only the interest earned on it can be used.
Sometimes funds set aside for a child are restricted so that they can only be used (before age of inheritance) for specific things such as education. In most cases though, a will says that the funds can be used for the child's general benefit. Keep in mind though, this is at the discretion of the trustee. You or the child may ask for funds but the trustee can say yes or no.
Hopefully this answers a few questions about trusts for minors. I hope it also points out to the many parents reading this post just how important it is to have a trust for children properly drafted in your will. Simple isn't always better if it leaves out these essential details.