Because I get so many questions about second marriages, and because it's so tricky to get estate planning right for individuals in this situation, I thought I'd talk a bit about some of the issues that specifically apply to people in second marriages. I'm not going to cover issues that apply to ALL married individuals, but only those that crop up with second or subsequent marriages.
Firstly, in some provinces, getting married automatically revokes an existing Will. If you made a Will after your divorce to look after your children, that Will was revoked when you re-married.
You'll realize when you start discussing your estate planning that you're going to have to carry out a balancing act between the various people in your life. You owe an obligation of financial support to certain people, including your spouse (married spouses in all provinces, common law spouses only in certain provinces), your minor children, and your children who are adults but who cannot earn a living due to a disability. This gets tricky for people in subsequent marriages because they often have two sets of children - one from each marriage.
I talked a bit more about that balancing act in a post here.
There are some other issues as well. For example, have you adopted your step-children? Typically people going into a second marriage only adopt their step-children if the children are quite young, but that varies. Understand that for the purposes of estate planning, non-adopted step-children have quite a different legal status than adopted step-children. If you don't make a Will at all, or the Will you have made is found to be invalid, this will make a huge difference to their rights.
If you do not make a valid Will, and your estate is to be divided among your spouse and your children, the word "children" here only includes blood or adopted children, and not step-children.
Also consider the beneficiary designations you've made on your life insurance policies and RRSPs. If you bought those items during your previous marriage, they probably designate your ex-spouse as the beneficiary. Perhaps that's what you still want, or what you are obligated to do as a result of your divorce settlement. In that case you don't have to change anything.
Most people, however, want to update their beneficiary designations to name their current spouse or perhaps the children. Do not assume that your divorce decree or your separation agreement changes those designations, because they do not. In some cases (a minority) the divorce or separation paperwork will specifically refer to a certain policy or account and talk about how it's to be dealt with; most do not. The generic wording of releasing all claims against the other's estate does NOT change beneficiary designations. You'll have to do that yourself if you want to change it.
Guardianship of minor children can also be an issue. You may have two sets of minor children who will likely have two different guardians. When you pass away, the children's other biological parent automatically has a right to custody, so you have to word any guardianship appointments for the children of your first marriage properly. I talked more about this in a post here.
For some people, leaving money in trust for the children of a previous marriage is an issue because they don't want their ex-spouse to have access to that money.
Finally, think about how the Dower Act might affect you. Most provinces in Canada have abolished the Dower Act but it's still in effect (for now, at least) in Alberta. This law gives a married (but not common law) spouse a right to live in the matrimonial home until he or she dies, moves out permanently or signs away that right. This can cause complications for someone with a current spouse who is trying to pass on property to children of a previous marriage.
If you are in, or soon to be in, a second (or subsequent) marriage, I strongly urge you to talk to an experienced estate planning lawyer to have an appropriate Will made. It's not a simple document but if properly done it will definitely save money and headaches for the people left behind after you pass away.
Firstly, in some provinces, getting married automatically revokes an existing Will. If you made a Will after your divorce to look after your children, that Will was revoked when you re-married.
You'll realize when you start discussing your estate planning that you're going to have to carry out a balancing act between the various people in your life. You owe an obligation of financial support to certain people, including your spouse (married spouses in all provinces, common law spouses only in certain provinces), your minor children, and your children who are adults but who cannot earn a living due to a disability. This gets tricky for people in subsequent marriages because they often have two sets of children - one from each marriage.
I talked a bit more about that balancing act in a post here.
There are some other issues as well. For example, have you adopted your step-children? Typically people going into a second marriage only adopt their step-children if the children are quite young, but that varies. Understand that for the purposes of estate planning, non-adopted step-children have quite a different legal status than adopted step-children. If you don't make a Will at all, or the Will you have made is found to be invalid, this will make a huge difference to their rights.
If you do not make a valid Will, and your estate is to be divided among your spouse and your children, the word "children" here only includes blood or adopted children, and not step-children.
Also consider the beneficiary designations you've made on your life insurance policies and RRSPs. If you bought those items during your previous marriage, they probably designate your ex-spouse as the beneficiary. Perhaps that's what you still want, or what you are obligated to do as a result of your divorce settlement. In that case you don't have to change anything.
Most people, however, want to update their beneficiary designations to name their current spouse or perhaps the children. Do not assume that your divorce decree or your separation agreement changes those designations, because they do not. In some cases (a minority) the divorce or separation paperwork will specifically refer to a certain policy or account and talk about how it's to be dealt with; most do not. The generic wording of releasing all claims against the other's estate does NOT change beneficiary designations. You'll have to do that yourself if you want to change it.
Guardianship of minor children can also be an issue. You may have two sets of minor children who will likely have two different guardians. When you pass away, the children's other biological parent automatically has a right to custody, so you have to word any guardianship appointments for the children of your first marriage properly. I talked more about this in a post here.
For some people, leaving money in trust for the children of a previous marriage is an issue because they don't want their ex-spouse to have access to that money.
Finally, think about how the Dower Act might affect you. Most provinces in Canada have abolished the Dower Act but it's still in effect (for now, at least) in Alberta. This law gives a married (but not common law) spouse a right to live in the matrimonial home until he or she dies, moves out permanently or signs away that right. This can cause complications for someone with a current spouse who is trying to pass on property to children of a previous marriage.
If you are in, or soon to be in, a second (or subsequent) marriage, I strongly urge you to talk to an experienced estate planning lawyer to have an appropriate Will made. It's not a simple document but if properly done it will definitely save money and headaches for the people left behind after you pass away.
I was married & am divorced 7 years. I came out as a gay man. I have a will that my ex is executor of & I leave 60% to her & my daughter age 28. She is finished university. I plan to formalize my relationship with my new partner in Costa Rica. They do not have gay marriage. We want to document our conjugal relationship there so he can come to Canada. In my will he gets 40%. Long term we will be married in Canada. Is this all O.K. or do I need to re-visit my will?
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